Ciji & Tom

  • Ciji and Tom
  • Us with Gus on the beach
  • Easter with Ciji's family
  • In Philly with Ciji's family
  • Tom's family at our wedding
  • Us with our goddaughter
  • Ciji and our cutie Gus
  • Tom having fun!
  • Out with friends!
  • Performing a family concert at Christmas
  • Us at a concert
  • Having fun in Disney!
  • Tom with his brother
  • Us with Ciji's brother
  • Tom spending time with our best friend's daughter
  • Rafting with friends!
  • Fun shot from our wedding!
  • Color coordinated!
  • Tom and Ciji skiing
  • Ciji and Tom at Thanksgiving
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Hello! We are Ciji and Tom. We are so excited at the thought of building our family through adoption. We are a loving couple that has always dreamed of having children, and we can’t wait for the day that we can finally be called ‘Mom’ and ‘Dad’!
We would like to thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We admire your courage and strength as you make this difficult decision, and we hope we can help you find peace and comfort in your decision.

About Us

We are a loving couple and have been happily married for eight years! Our story began during college, where we were both music education majors. We became very close friends and started dating soon after that. Right from that moment, we knew that we were a perfect match!

We live in a happy home in Central NJ with our pets Gus and Kitty. We both work as musicians and music teachers and are very involved with our schools and communities. During our free time, we love getting together with our friends and families. We also love to travel and to experience life’s adventures together!

Family Life

Our family and friends are very important to us and are a very big part of our lives. We are so blessed to be surrounded by wonderful people who love and care for us. We have many traditions with our families and enjoy our time together celebrating holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, and reunions.

Our Home and Community

We live in a beautiful townhome community in Central Jersey. This is the perfect place to raise our children. The neighborhood has two playgrounds, and lots of other children to play with. The community is very active with lots of parks, recreation, sports, music, and other activities for children to participate in. The schools in our town are among the best in NJ.

Our Values

We will commit ourselves to giving our best to our children and providing for them a home and a family that loves and supports them unconditionally. We will teach our children to be kind to others, to be honest and trustworthy, to be great friends, and to do the right thing, even when it’s a difficult thing to do.

We strongly believe in the importance of education and teaching our children to work hard and be successful in school. We also strongly believe in a child’s social development beyond academics, and feel it is very important for kids to get involved and to make friends. We will encourage our children to be active, and to explore and discover their passions…whether that be sports, music, art, dance, or anything else that inspires them.

Our Message to You

Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We are so excited to become parents and would be overjoyed to have the opportunity to love and cherish your beautiful child. We realize this is a very difficult decision for you and wish you peace and comfort in whichever choice you make.

Ciji and Tom

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A Loving Choice Adoption Associates is an adoption agency located in Monmouth County NJ and serves all of New Jersey.